How to Get Your Ex Back in Your Arms Fast – The 3 Step Simple Strategy to Winning Their Heart Back

After a break-up, we usually start desperately wondering what we should do or say to stop the breakup and get our ex back (that’s if we still love them and there wasn’t abuse or violence involved…)Even if there are some simple steps we can follow, we must remember that we’re all unique, nobody is like the other. This is why, although there are basic rules about everything, nobody can tell you how to specifically act or how your ex will react to what you do. But, what we all can make good use of, is a guide to plan a strategy to reach our goal.Here are some helpful tips to include in your strategy for getting your ex back.1. In order to start planning the right strategy for contacting your ex after a breakup and getting them in the right frame of mind to re-consider your relationship… you have to be able to answer one simple question: what is it that makes you really want him/her back?To answer this question, you will have to remember what made you fall for them in the first place, and what made them fall for you. Sometimes we need to remember how it felt to have “butterflies” in he stomach. Don’t just say “I just love them…”. Be specific. Write in an honest fashion the good and bad sides of your relationship and your ex partner. Before you can continue with your plan, you have to be clear on those.2. Don’t shower your ex with attention after the breakup. This will make you seem needy and desperate. People are wired to reject neediness and desperation and excessive contact will push your ex further away and only confirm their decision to break up with you.Experts recommend that you don’t contact your ex for about a month if at all possible. If kids are involved that might not be so easy, but even so, try to keep it to some rational brief talk.3. Plan your strategy to re-ignite desire and attraction. We tend to forget what love is when everything turns into a routine. There is no “magic” left, as most would say. These are some reasons why most people usually break-up, using the “love is over” excuse. Truth is, love is not really over, we just can’t seem to “remember” anymore.In your plan, make sure to consider why you want them back and what actually went wrong in your relationship in the first place (the real reason, not the excuses…).It’s critical that you make a plan and NOT act out of impulse. Salvaging your relationship and winning back their heart, mind and soul requires a calm and gradual approach. If you are at all interested in this subject, there are some great resources available on the web. Check out the next paragraph for some links, tips and even couple of free video tips…

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